Well, I don't wish to tempt fate for the rest of the year, but I've had quite a peppy January, actually. I don't tend to set much store by 'new year, new start' mindset normally, but 2024 was frankly a less than good year for me, and I have entered 2025 quite forcefully motivated to MAKE IT BETTER
I had been planning on spending January 1st on a bracing hike through the Sussex countryside with my friend August. However, with weather due to be terrible, we decided to rearrange and instead visit a stately home. But the stately home was also closed due to terrible weather! So we called the whole thing off.
Despondent, I moped around for the morning trying to remember what I actually like doing if given totally free rein. I wasn't in the mood for a gallery or a show, the weather was (as mentioned) too bad for a hike or anything outdoors, and I'd spent the preceding two weeks on gentle household hobbies.
I started thinking about nice sensory experiences and remembered how much I love to SWIM! And then I remembered how much I love to SPA!!! My favourite London spa (which I have only been to once) is £££ and I cannot afford that right now, but I started doing some research and it turns out there are much cheaper ways to go spa, and one of them is booking into a hotel spa during an off-peak time — this one only cost £35!
The weather was truly terrible and I very much enjoyed pretending to be the kind of rich person who can stay in a nice hotel for a couple of hours.
I enjoyed it so much...
...That I decided to make doing it a bunch more times one of my EMMA LIFE GOALS for 2025.
As metioned, I am not normally super into new years resolutions, but I saw a few other friends making a cute lil nice things to do in 2025 bingo grid, and decided to indulge myself by doing it too. And it has been so nice! and so motivating!! Why do we always resolve to do the horrible thing (exercise, eat less) when we could resolve to do the fun thing?!

Talking of fun things — finally did go on a hike, and a big one at that. The next two sections of my ongoing London Loop adventure were somewhat annoying, as there was no easy transit option at the end of section 12/start of section 13. I made the executive decision to run the two together into a mega-hike, and roped my sweet friend Alex in for the ride. The weather was absolutely glorious (bright sunlight, blue skies, and crisp cold which helpfully meant all the mud was frozen), and we saw lots of interesting sights, including sunken boats, brutalist architecture, and the seediest looking pub I've ever encountered (we did not go in, we just read the reviews). I also did a lot of very satisfying icy puddle stomping, like the toddler I still am.
Before it was truly time for work to start again, went to visit our old housemate Beth (and partner Angus) for some boardgames and chatter.
If I do say so myself, I am already pretty hot on my decluttering game, but enjoy it so much I take any opportunity to do more, so, (inspired by my lovely friend Daisy), I joined in with an instagram influencer's January tidy up challenge. (I have been doing it in big chunks rather than daily though, so have not yet hit the 100 items goal, though I know I can do it...)
Jessie is still pretty grumpy with most other dogs on our walks, though for reasons entirely her own, (possibly related to not being on a lead), copes A-ok when out with her dog walker. Every day on our local walk we meet a man and his little white scottie dog, and if I let Jessie get near enough to meet them, both dogs absolutely LOSE THEIR MINDS with rage
As well as starting fights with guys much smaller than her, she also loves face in hedge
Everyone talks about the gap between Christmas and new year as a weird liminal time where you don't quite know what to do with yourself, but that's wrong, because the answer is clearly 'whatever you want'. The difficult period in my view (as a freelancer and latterly academic) is the first week or two of Jan where you know you probably should be working, but don't entirely want to.
I know I know, it's good for nature when temps drop below zero because all the plants expect it, and if it doesn't get cold in Jan it's a bad sign of global warming, but it doesn't mean I have to like it, okay
Came to my Samaritans shift to find devastating news, the Pret who usually let us take all their leftovers home at 8pm have SHUT DOWN FOR GOOD?!?!?! We have a new deal with Gail's but Gail's is rubbish (all they ever send us is like a million cinnamon buns, I hate that shit)

Emma's ongoing 'it's nice to do nice things' mission continues, with a trip down to Brighton. First, a tour around the super cool tunnels of the Pavillion with August (who it was good to see after our new year's day excursion so woefully failed), and then lunch at NEW Pompoko with Jade. Having been eating at Pompoko for, somehow, over 16 years (what is time), it was very disconcerting to hear they had decided to open a second branch (I know it should seem like a good thing but I worry the perfect Pompoko equilibrium that has kept them alive for so long will somehow topple). I will concede that the new branch is much more spacious and chill for a slower lunch, and it was lovely to see Jade and celebrate our mutual fav, Yubamaki.
I think my iPad (on which I create my visual diaries in Procreate) is starting to age a little (I bought it already secondhand in 2020, so I guess it's doing okay considering)
The clear out continues!
I decided to finally let go of a load of blank notebooks I'd bought/been gifted over the years, so took them in the next day and gave them to my students (who were genuinely delighted), so that felt wholesome.
Mum and Dad got me a new rucksack for Christmas (at my request), and it's GREAT! I also got myself new shoes and new trousers as a christmas treat, so felt very back-to-school motivated by all my nice new things.
Had a day of weird stabbing pains in my abdomen and half convinced myself I had appendicitis, then they went away. What even are bodies?!
Nine months after the rewire, we are finally (very slowly) sorting our shit out. (Well, my partner is, because they knew I'd do a botch job of it if left to my own devices, and they are probably right). It is happening very slowly but I am SO glad some little bits of the house are starting to look somewhat tidier.
I don't think I've talked about it loads, but for the last year I've been completing a PG Cert qualification. It means I'm a real teacher or something? Anyway the culmination of this was a day of presentations about our final major project to our peers (and then afterwards we all go to Wetherspoons and gently celebrate/brace for grades in a few weeks). It's mostly been a nice year, as quite a few of my co-students were people I'd already met in various other contexts around the university, so it was nice to all come to together and be students ourselves.
Did some leaf raking in the garden. I like doing this because loads of robins come and lurk around the edges of the garden, hopping along behind me whenever I move away to eat all the bugs I've unearthed. (Robins were my fav animal as a small child)
I wish she wasn't QUITE so motivated to kill, but so it goes
One of my big stresses over the last few months has been saving up enough money to cut down lots of trees in our garden. I managed it, and it was a good job we did it this year, as once they cut them down there were signs of ash die-back visible in their hearts (including in this ominous 'X' pattern in one of them)
The garden is so much lighter now! It's a real mess though, as they had to take the fence down and there's loads of sawdust everywhere. Looking forwards to it all being filled with new growth soon as it's a bit of a mud patch at the moment.
Is anyone else who's with Octopus taking part in their energy saving sessions? It's a fun concept, but don't take it too far and fall over your dog.
(It's okay, I was just having a bad day)
'Tis the season for my intense phobia of vomiting to kick right back in! Everyone* has norovirus! (*My parents, my friends, my colleagues). Best to just assume every surface is covered in a fine layer of excrement tbh (sob) — getting norovirus is pretty much my worst nightmare, so I am being a little obsessive about avoiding it.
Luckily not so obsessive as to stop going out and doing stuff though (even though, as mentioned, we must assume every public transport surface is covered with excrement). Faced with a free Saturday, decided to hop on the tram and find out What's At The End of the Line?! (If I could be bothered, I'd make a series out of this...) — anyway, the answer is 'not actually that much', but the weather was lovely again, so I had a nice time (and got to visit the forest where Jessie's dog walker takes her out, though without Jessie obvs, because she's way too much of a dickhead/scaredy girl to come on the tram)

Talking of devices failing, my fitbit died and since they're now owned by Google I figured one evil's as bad as the other and I might as well get an Apple watch instead (a cheapy secondhand one from CEX, not new obvs). It is simultaneously fun and uneccesarily excessive (All I really need is the time and some body metrics, but it's fun to also be able to see a picture of my dog on my wrist whenever I want to)
Some of the Quakers I go to meeting with were hosting a lil dinner and discussion group at their house, so I decided to go along. Some people have NICE HOUSES huh
One of my 2025 EMMA LIFE GOALS was to actually get my record player functioning again.
My current partner actually bought me a record player like, 3 years ago?! But for some reason I never set it up. Why?
Well, I guess I felt obnoxious playing records out loud in a shared house (which we lived in until late 2023), and still even feel kinda obnoxious playing records out loud even when it's just me and my partner home!
Also I guess, in the immediate run up to the pandemic, music was a huge part of my life. Those of you who knew me back then may remember some of my ridiculous adventures, which involved a lot of travel, a lot of meeting people in the music world, a lot of live shows, and basically a very heightened focus on music as a big part of my life. When the pandemic came along, all of that shut down overnight, and though I never stopped listening to music, the intense connection I had with discovery and the live scene just sort of snapped and never came back. I bought most of these records at a time when I was deep in that world (like, I met/knew some of the people who made these records! I bought them at shows!) and there was something kind of wistful and sad about putting them on and remembering all that I lost (without even really realising I'd lost it, until much later on)
But anyway, the time is right I guess. I'm listening through my whole collection, A-Z (slowly), and having a great time doing so. And I'm gonna try and get more engaged again, break the tie to Spotify algorithms and actually re-embrace better ways of hearing new stuff (like listening to radio shows by actual real people).
My intense gig going days might be over (when I think back to 2017/18 and all those times I stayed up until 3 or 4am, that feels incomprehensible to me now), but I did make it one of my goals to be a bit more proactive about going to shows this year, so that is what I will try and do.
And then last night we had a lovely boardgames time with Kath, Fuad, and their rowdy lad Rafiki. (I love Galaxy Trucker!)
It has been [0] days since Emma accidentally put a tissue in the machine.
It feels like it's been quite a nice month overall, which is something of a feat for a January. Here's hoping I can keep it rolling into Feb.